Relationships

You know when you break up with someone, at the moment, you know why you are doing it, a week later you don't remember why you did it. If you continue to hang out with that person, you either see all the good there was in the relationship or all the bad. When you see all the bad, it just reinforces the decision you made. When you see all good, you question yourself, you try to remember why you ended it, you think to yourself, "things really weren't that bad." I think I figured out the key, you can't focus on what worked, you have to focus on what didn't work. Not neccessarily what was bad, but why the two of you didn't work out, why the relationship at that level didn't work. Lonliness sucks, but being in a relationship that doesn't work, can be event worse.

Thoughts - Ideas - Philosophy

you ever have those days you just feel alone...