Thoughts - Ideas - Philosophy

Thoughts - Ideas - Philosophy
so you ever just watch people... I think you see the most interesting things sometimes. I was at the laundry mat tonight and I saw this guy and girl talking, they looked to me as if they were flirting a bit. But during the coarse fo their conversation, she had mentioned her husband doing this or that. They continued in on in the same fashion, again, looking as if they were still flirting with each other. I guess I found it awkward, because I don't think I would be acting the same. I think it just maybe my personality.
I thought of another idea the other day; Maslov's hierarchy of needs. For those who don't know, it is the concept that you have certain needs that have to be obtained before you move up the pyramid and to achieve wants and desires and eventually reach self actualization. I started thinking how much it really defines who we are. Those who have those basic needs fulfilled and don't have to worry about them, can spend more time focusing on on those concepts that are higher up on the pyramid. I think that helps to define who I am. Most of my life I have been focused on fulfilling that first level of needs and making sure I don't lose what I already have. Some of my biggest fears are being poor and not being able to pay my rent or have enough money for food. I seem to focus more on the practical then the fun. I have had friends tell me that when I give gifts I only give pratical gifts instead of fun gifts, and to me that makes sense. Get people what they need. I think I am getting to a point where I am living comfortable and can now focus on other aspects. It's a new idea and concept for me, it's going to take some time to learn.