more meaning of life

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I have all I want for myself up to this point in my life. Great job, friends, have my undergraduate degree and live in a pretty cool place in LA. I think I need a partner in crime, some one to start thinking about the future with. The problem is I can't seem to find that, good ol' fashion bar scene is just not my scene, and meeting people online hasn't been as fruitful as I thought it maybe. I am out trying to meet people via Salsa Dancing, maybe joining a coed softball team, maybe taking up bowling. As much of a fundemental aspect of life that dating is, why is it so hard and why isn't it a bigger part of what we do in society? I'm haning out at Starbucks now, but everyone here comes with someone else. People come here with a purpose. Where do you meet a smart, educated, cute, easy to get along with women who has goals and aspirations in life?